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My wife wants a lover. how can i help her find one?
You should be asking yourself what you want, given how shabbily you have been treated, says Annalisa Barbieri. My wife and I have been married for nearly 20 years.
We have three teenage children. My wife became uninterested in our sex life about 10 years ago. She then became progressively more distant.
When I asked her whether it had something to do with the other guy, she said no and I believe her. Recently my wife acknowledged that she is no longer in love with me; she loves me as the father of her children, admires me, respects me, loves me as a family member, but is neither attracted to me nor in love with me.
She said she was considering ending our marriage when the children are grown. I told her so, just as I told her that it would be way beyond what I can and am willing to accept.
I do love her and am still in love with her, but her behaviour has hit me quite hard. We are on good terms and I would hate our relationship to become grim. I fear that my frustrations on knowing that my love for my wife is hopeless will make our life together eventually unbearable.
I feel desperate for our children. I do not know what to think or do concerning Anita.
She is a beautiful woman whom I have known since I met my wife. I have never thought romantically about her.
Would it be wise to talk about it with her? You should be asking yourself what you want, given how very shabbily you have been treated.
Your wife says she respects you but I think she needs a dictionary. Can we imagine for a moment if the roles were reversed? Perhaps you would see how emotionally abusive this relationship is. It is sad, but understandable, when people to fall out of love with one another, but it is not fine for them to treat their partners badly and offer to set them up — pimp them, almost! What matters now are your children, first and foremost, and dealing with ending this relationship safely and sanely for all of you.
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Because, by your own words, it is past saving. I consulted sexual and relationship counsellor Caroline Lovett cosrt. It sounds like something that has been there for over half your relationship. People can become very good at being parents, at their jobs etc but where is the time for you as individuals?
Where is the tending to the relationship?
My wife wants me to have an affair with her best friend. what shall i do?
Your wife is being manipulative. You wrote to me during lockdown, which is not a good time to make major decisions. Every week Annalisa Barbieri addresses a family-related problem sent in by a reader. If you would like advice from Annalisa on a family matter, please send your problem to ask. Annalisa regrets she cannot enter into personal correspondence.
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